Marc Estrin : The Mathematics of Mother’s Day

A novel approach:
Happy Mother’s Day

By Marc Estrin / The Rag Blog / May 8, 2010

Novelist and Rag Blog contributor Marc Estrin will be Thorne Dreyer’s guest on Rag Radio, Tuesday, May 11, 2-3 p.m. (CST) on KOOP 91.7 FM in Austin. For those outside the listening area, go here to stream the show.

They will discuss Marc’s novels, his history with the legendary Bread and Puppet Theater, and more — including his Rag Blog scoop “Got Fascism?: Obama Advisor Promotes ‘Cognitive Infiltration’” that created quite a stir on the internet.

The following is from Marc Estrin’s novel, Golem Song.

Having been reminded by Debbie, one of his girlfriends, Alan Krieger walks into a drug store to buy a card for his mother.

OK, Walgreens. Let’s see, cards over there. Good! Mother’s Day still with us. Holy moly Shazam! I can’t believe it. I can’t fucking believe it. Let’s see — one two three four five six seven eight nine ten times one two three four five sections, that’s fifty columns times one two three four five six seven eight nine ten eleven twelve thirteen rows. That’s fifty times thirteen. Fifty times ten is five hundred plus three times fifty — six hundred and fifty! Six hundred and fucking fifty! Six hundred and fifty different Mother’s Day cards! How can you have six hundred and fifty… oh, I see: categories. Different categories.

Soooo… here’s MOTHER like my mother, I guess, though who could be like my mother?… then what else? MOTHER-TO-BE. I wonder if they have “Mother-that-was” for miscarriages — there’s a million dollar idea. HUMOROUS MOTHER-TO-BE. How about humorous plain Mother? But she’s not all that funny. OTHER MOTHER. Nice rhyme. GOD MOTHER and GOD MOTHER ADULT. Is that like X-rated? Let’s see. Nope, stodgier. NEW MOTHER, ah, poor thing, should be in the condolence section with little packs of Valium attached. Oh, here’s a good one: LIKE A MOTHER. A Mother’s Day card for my “Like a Mother”? No, that would be too mean. I mean I’m mean, but I’m not that mean. Gottenu — FRIEND’S MOTHER! One isn’t enough? You have to adopt more? I can’t deal with this. FROM MOM TO CHILDREN — for Mother’s Day? What a rabid guilt-trip! I know you won’t remember to send me a Mother’s Day card, so I’m sending one to you, hope you feel terrible, love Mom. CARDS FROM BOTH OF US — for the frugally-minded, no doubt. CARDS ACROSS THE MILES. Dear Mom, thinking of you from Challenger Two. Can you see me waving? SISTER, SISTER’S FIRST. RELIGIOUS SISTER For Mother’s Day? Our Lady of Fornication? Ah, NANA, ooo-la-la. Oop. We’re in the unspeakably hip section — CARDS SUITABLE FOR SINGLE PARENT. Love them 90s! And last but not least, Ladies and Gentlemen, more lethal than a speeding bullet, more powerful than a TV commercial — it’s SUPERMOM, who years ago, in the Orient, learned the secret of clouding men’s minds. How the hell am I going to choose? This is a Ph.D. thesis project. Limit the search, Alan. Back, back. Back, like the aging Goethe, to the simple realm of basic MOTHER.

OK, so then we’ve got only one two three four and a half sections of ten times thirteen rows. A little less than half the total, the exact arithmetic is beyond me at this hour of mental and spiritual exhaustion, but say three hundred cards to go through. Only three hundred? Well, we’ll do an adjectival inspection for relevance to our very own mother. Courage, Alan, this is no worse than cataloguing Saddam Hussein’s CBW holdings. “Gentle”? No. “Tender?” No. “Soothing?” Oi, oi, oi. “Guiding?” By contrast, perhaps. “Sharing.” A little less would be appreciated. “Understanding.” Possibly. Though what she understands is unclear. “Patient.” Like an adder. “Kind.” Yeah. To quadrupeds. “Undemanding.” Gimme a break. Must not be Jewish. “Dependable.” Like death and taxes. “Strong.” You bet, 200 proof, pH one point oh. “Warm…generous…giving…thoughtful — though what kinds of thoughts they’re not saying — kind — didn’t we have that one before? — unselfish.” Am I on the wrong planet?

“Am I on the wrong planet?” This is the fundamental question asked by hostages. And hostages are usually ignored.

“Hey buddy, am I on the wrong… I’m talkin to you, don’t walk away from me.”



Jesus, I’m only one row across one section. Two hundred ninety cards to go, I’ll never make it. “Always there.” Well, God knows that’s true. “Never too busy.” On the other hand, might it not be better to be been a latch-key kid? But they don’t hire corporate execs with rolled-down stockings. Oh, look at this. How sweet. She “always finds the sunshine”. And if the rains do come, she “keeps only the rainbows.” Ipecac ahoy. Here’s a mom that “always shows concern for others” and “expects very little in return.”

That’s it. I’ve had it. My cup of irony runneth over. We’re going to do this by the random method, and grit our decaying teeth at the result. Close your eyes, Alan. Now spin twice around, moving in a trajectory to your right as you spin, trying not to make a fool of yourself by poking your finger into someone’s pupik — there! Got it! My finger directly on a card without falling on my face. Oh praise to your semi-circular canals, Alan, for their faithful service all these years…

Why, it’s Snoopy! Yes, Snoopy, why not? It matches her literary level, and is thematically appropriate, though she won’t get the obvious reference. What does Snoopy have to say to my sainted mother? Ah, a riddle. A conundrum, as it were. “What does a mother stand for?” Snoopy, my canine-ical friend, do you really want to ask that question? Are you prepared for the answer? But… I give up. What does a mother stand for? Open the card, and the answer is… “She’s so busy she doesn’t have time to sit down.” Good try, old droopy-nose, but avoidance will get you nowhere. You have to get up pretty early in the morning to hoodwink me, and it’s already 8:14 p.m.. But Mother Legree will like such innocence, and take it as a compliment. $1.49? For this devious piece of shit? That’s three and a half White Castle hamburgers? Well, this, plus a small bag of Hershey Kisses to support her habit, and perhaps absolve me of all but one passive peck ought to do it for under five bucks. Laudamus te, oh my sweet, reminding Debeleh, who hath spared us the heartache and nitroglycerine of another forgotten Mother’s Day.

[Marc Estrin is a writer and activist, living in Burlington, Vermont. His novels, Insect Dreams, The Half Life of Gregor Samsa, The Education of Arnold Hitler, Golem Song, and The Lamentations of Julius Marantz have won critical acclaim. His memoir, Rehearsing With Gods: Photographs and Essays on the Bread & Puppet Theater (with Ron Simon, photographer) won a 2004 theater book of the year award. He is currently working on a novel about the dead Tchaikovsky.]

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3 Responses to Marc Estrin : The Mathematics of Mother’s Day

  1. Pollyanna says:

    Most amusing!

    Say, are other people who make comments here noticing that the word verification words are, like, almost words?? mine today is “avispoop”, like birdshit??

    Oh, Marc, generally “sainted” implies that one’s mother has Passed Over. When and if that event occurs, sending a card is no longer de rigeur (de rigor?).

  2. Deva says:

    Mother’s Day is really supposed to be about political activism by women to improve the human condition – not a commercial holiday!

    My children know better than to buy me stuff on this day – instead, they patiently listen to me read the original Mother’s Day Proclamation (1870, Julia Ward Howe).

    Mother’s Day Proclamation

    “Arise then, women of this day! Arise all women who have hearts, whether your baptism be of water or of tears!

    “Say firmly”: ‘We will not have questions decided by irrelevant agencies. Our husbands shall not come to us reeking of carnage for caresses and applause. Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn all that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy, and patience. We women of one country will be too tender to those of another country to allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs. From the bosom of a devastated Earth a voice goes up with our own, it says “Disarm! Disarm!” The sword of murder is not the balance of justice. Blood does not wipe out dishonor, nor violence indicate possession.’

    “As men have forsaken the plow and the anvil at the summons of war, let women now leave all that may be left of home for a great and earnest day of counsel. Let them meet first as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead. Let them solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means whereby the great human family can live in peace, each bearing after his time the sacred impress not of Caesar, but of God.

    “In the name of womanhood and humanity, I earnestly ask that a general congress of women without limit of nationality be appointed and held at some place deemed most convenient and at the earliest period consistent with its objects, to promote the alliance of the different nationalities, the amicable settlement of international questions, the great and general interests of peace.”

  3. Mariann says:

    Deva, that is awesome!! I don’t think I’ve ever seen it before! THANK YOU!!

    What a great Mother’s Day tradition to pass on to your children!! I’m copying it to pass on to mine TODAY!

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