People intent on taking back control of welcoming a child or saying goodbye to a loved one often find they don’t have the skills or information they need.
A current national pretense: having a baby means cute baby stuff and competition for nursery school slots while death… well, death doesn’t exist at all, because aging is not allowed. Meanwhile, real life doesn’t happen without these defining events. Humans have honored the ultimate life transitions in their communities in many ways through the ages, but always they were honored.
During the past 100 years of American society these rituals have systematically been lifted from the hands and homes of family members and friends and subjected to laws, regulations and changing societal norms until these most basic personal rites hardly belong to us anymore, and there’s been a movement going on for a while to change that.
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